When you know which wedding planner you want to hire, it is important to know what is going to happen. That is why this week we will talk about the relationship between you and your wedding planner and the communication between you and your partner during the planning process of your wedding.
First meeting with your wedding planner
The first time that you will meet your wedding planner, it will certainly be very exciting for you both. During this meeting, you are going to ask all the questions you might have. If you want more information about the career, the experience or the way that your wedding planner works, it is up to you to ask these questions. The purpose of this first meeting is to set a final date for your wedding, to choose the kind of wedding you will have, to discuss the guest list and to talk about the venue you would like. Do not forget that you have to know more or less the budget that you can afford to spend.
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Learn to work with you wedding planner
Now, you know that a wedding planner assists you with planning of your wedding from start to end. This person is trained to satisfy the desires of the couple that is getting married and their guests as well. For the planning, it is important to learn how to work with your wedding planner, rather than just have one to work for you. You need to bring her into your wedding project because she can improve your first ideas or help you with creating better ones. It might seem a bit overwhelming at first, but your wedding planner will help you out!
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Trust your wedding planner
Like any good relationship, the one with your wedding planner has to be based on mutual trust. Even if her experience and expertise are really important for planning, you need to have a good feeling and believe that she is right for you. If you do not believe that your wedding planner is on your side and doing the best she can for you, this can cause problems. This may be resulting in the fact that your wedding will be filled with stress and anxiety and you are going to think that not everything is in control.
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Communication during planning
There are a million of decisions to take before the wedding day. Communication between the future newlyweds is really crucial to avoid high tension and arguments.
While the wedding is a big day for both the bride and groom, the bride is the point of attention on the day. That is why the bride wants to be as perfect as possible. This means there is an enormous amount of pressure on the bride. That is why she does not want to feel alone when she has to take decisions. Sometimes, after the groom proposes, he does not really know what he is supposed to be responsible for. You need to talk to each other about your wedding and what you expect from one another. Do not let the other take the choices all alone. So share your ideas!
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